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  • Writer's pictureNephele Delis

The Benefits of Mediation Versus Litigation When Dealing with a Narcissist and More

Navigating a relationship with a partner who has a personality disorder can be incredibly challenging, especially when disputes arise. If you find yourself in such a situation, mediation can be a far more effective and compassionate alternative to litigation. At Delis Mediation, we understand the complexities involved and are here to offer a supportive, safe, and confidential environment to help you reach a resolution.


Understanding Personality Disorders


Personality disorders are mental health conditions that involve enduring patterns of behavior, cognition, and inner experience, which deviate markedly from the expectations of the individual’s culture. These patterns are inflexible and pervasive across many situations, leading to distress or impairment.


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Cluster B (Dramatic, Emotional, or Erratic Disorders):

  • What is Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? Characterized by instability in relationships, self-image, and emotions. Individuals may exhibit intense episodes of anger, depression, and anxiety that may last from a few hours to days.


  • What is Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD)?: Involves a pattern of excessive emotionality and attention-seeking behavior.

  • What is Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD)?: Characterized by a disregard for, and violation of, the rights of others. Individuals may be deceitful, manipulative, and engage in unlawful behavior.


Cluster C (Anxious or Fearful Disorders):

  • What is Avoidant Personality Disorder (AVPD)?: Marked by severe social inhibition, feelings of inadequacy, and extreme sensitivity to negative evaluation.

  • What is Dependent Personality Disorder (DPD)?: Involves a pervasive psychological dependence on other people.

  • What is Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder (OCPD)?: Characterized by a preoccupation with orderliness, perfectionism, and control, at the expense of flexibility and efficiency​.

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Why Litigation Can Exacerbate Conflict



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Adversarial Nature: Litigation is inherently adversarial. It pits one party against the other, often escalating conflict rather than resolving it. This combative atmosphere can be particularly damaging when one party has a personality disorder like Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), as it can trigger more extreme behaviors and deepen emotional wounds.


Public Exposure: Court proceedings are public, which can exacerbate feelings of shame, embarrassment, and vulnerability for those with personality disorders. This lack of privacy can lead to increased defensiveness and hostility, making it more difficult to achieve a constructive resolution.


Loss of Control: In litigation, decisions are made by a judge, leaving parties with little control over the outcome. This can be particularly distressing for individuals with personality disorders, who may feel a heightened need for control and stability.



How Mediation Can Help



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Creating a Safe and Welcoming Environment: At Delis Mediation, we prioritize creating a safe and welcoming environment where all parties feel respected and heard. This is especially important for individuals with personality disorders, who may feel misunderstood or judged. Our mediators are trained to facilitate discussions with empathy and patience, ensuring that everyone has the opportunity to express themselves without fear of judgment.


Confidential and Private Sessions: Mediation sessions are private and confidential, which helps protect sensitive information and provides a secure space for open communication. This confidentiality is crucial in building trust and allowing parties to discuss their concerns honestly and openly.


Empowering Communication: Mediation empowers both parties to take an active role in resolving their disputes. This process encourages better communication and understanding, which can lead to more sustainable, long-term solutions. For individuals with personality disorders, this sense of empowerment can be particularly therapeutic and beneficial.



Flexible and Accessible: Our mediation services, including virtual sessions, provide flexibility and accessibility. This can be especially helpful for those with avoidant or dependent personality disorders, who may find face-to-face interactions stressful.


Continuous Learning and Specialist Consultation: We are committed to continuous learning and professional development. We regularly consult with specialists in mental health, attend seminars, and stay updated with the latest research and practices in dispute resolution.



A Tailored Mediation Approach


Navigating divorce, parenting time, and general mediation with a narcissist, a dependent partner, or other personality disorders can be challenging. Mediation offers a safe, private environment where all parties can express themselves without judgment. Unlike litigation, which often exacerbates conflict, mediation empowers individuals to communicate effectively and reach mutually beneficial solutions. To learn more about how we can assist you, visit our website at Delis Mediation. Let us help you navigate these challenging times with empathy and expertise.



Choosing mediation is choosing a path of understanding and lasting resolution. Let Delis Mediation guide you through this journey

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